Hi Friends and Devoted Readers,
This is a brand new section of my website created just for you. You’ve heard of Dear Abby? Of course you have! Well, now you can ask me - Dr. Michelle - about anything that’s on your mind. Below you will see a comment box where you can fill in the information needed and your question to me. I will do my best to answer it promptly here for you. Try to keep your question brief and to the point. It’s very possible that your question may also be a question that’s on another person’s mind and that is going on in another person’s life too. By answering your question for you - we could both be helping a lot of different people. If I feel that your question is inappropriate for this column, or if you feel that you want to ask me a question but it’s too personal to be published, feel free to write to me at: michelle@astroenlightenment.com and I’ll talk to you privately.
For anyone that desires to leave me a question here, please feel free to do so. Be truthful and as creative as you desire! You can come back again in the near future and you will see my answer for you here.
Blessings, Love and Light,
Dr. Michelle
Hello Michelle! I hope your new year is fabulous and wonderful. I just Stopped By to let you know that I appreciate your warmth, talent, kindness and insight. I feel that this year should be “all about me” - I’m a Pisces (March 9 1958; 4:32 am) and my 50th anniversary of life finds me WANTING to be selfish: a party, a vacation, a better grip on my reality (hormones), etc. I reviewed your Monthly Horoscope for Pisces and found it to be exactly what I needed affirmed! Thanks much for your friendly openness and caring nature. AND for your exceptional assessments. I recognize you have trained and studied and honed your skills- and it shows. If I have a question for this time, for this space and place in my life, its my sense of being unsettled, mostly at work. I am trying hard to erase negative scripts, derogatory self-deprecating remarks, sarcastic retorts.. .. self-love is a hard skill for me to embrace for MYSELF. Of course I rail at others who do not Take Care of Themselves but I have a really tough time making it MY own habit. I am making conscious attempts to integrate self-worth and self-care into my regular-as-breathing landscape of personality traits. Its just really hard to make the transitions. All about me– leaving my comfort level of a lifetime and finding out how to Celebrate Me seems so difficult. Any words of wisdom? Helpful mantras? Advice? The old habits die hard– and since it has not yet really become Harder to Keep the Old than to integrate the New (desired) approach to self-love and self-care, well, see my challenge? I know I have to WANT to change more than I want to stay the same! DUH. Yet I feel I am making so little progress ; I want that magic wand and instant validation!
Thanks for letting me see this, in writing, for letting me vent a little. Oh yeah, and for the chance to celebrate your good heart and warm intentions! ever, Mommstur Di
Hi Di,
I first want to Thank YOU for your special comments about me…I totally appreciate that. I, too, am a Pisces Soul and I totally understand your dilemma. It’s extremely important that you realize you are an advanced soul who chose to be born under the unconditionally loving sign of Pisces! YES YOU ARE! And as such, you need to stop doing everything for everyone and start showing them by example how to live a happy and joyfilled life. Only by YOU being happy and filled with JOY will they realize how important life is.
Realize that: Your life is your personal journey…and it’s up to you to make the most of it!
What you are doing now is ‘undoing’ all of the negative thinking that your parents and society taught you as a child. You have the right to do what you want to do and to do things that make ‘you’ happy! That is NOT being selfish at all!
One thing I know for sure is that when you pass out of this earth dimension, you are going to be asked one very, very, very important question - “Hey Di, how well did you take care of Di? Did you do things to make her happy? Did you go to special places and meet some interesting people? What did you learn that you didn’t know before you went there? Did you learn some special things that make your soul grow?” I know that is more than just 1 question, but you get the point.
I think that the very best gift that you can give to yourself right now would be a very special in-depth session with me. Check out my ‘consultations’ section of my site here and also check out the ‘testimonials’ and then drop me an e-mail at: michelle@astroenlightenment.com and let’s hook up! I would totally love to do a session for you and I know you would love it too.
It’s time for you to move forward and step into the JOY that is your very own life! I am here to help you do just that!
I’ll look forward to hearing from you soon!
Big Hugs and Blessings back to you Pisces Sister,
Dr. Michelle
Will I ever find the right woman?
Hi Eric,
Without knowing your actual birthday and taking a good look at your chart - which I can do if you e-mail me and give me your birthday information - I’m just going by my intuitive feelings about your question. The first thing I feel is that you have gone through a serious depression regarding relationship(s) in your past and you have a ‘block’ on attracting the ‘right’ woman into your life. Women are attracted to you, but there is a feeling of mistrust regarding relationships due to your past experiences. - You can ‘unblock’ this - You CAN attract someone wonderful into your life! Use this as a positive affirmation for yourself. First figure out what your blocks are - figure out why you feel a mistrust - forgive those women from your past that have helped to put that block there - and forgive yourself for feeling that you didn’t meet up to their expectations. Then begin to say, “I choose to attract a wonderful, trusting, and honest woman into my life” and visualize what you desire her to look like and ‘be’ like for you.
This should help you tremendously. If you get stuck again, or if you can’t unblock yourself, or if you have a hard time ‘knowing’ what your blocks are - e-mail me and set up a personal appointment.
Good Luck Eric…you deserve to have true love in your life too!
Dr. Michelle
Michelle,
Sorry, I forgot to add my daughters birthdate(11-14-89) and her boyfriends(3-25-90). Are they good for eachother? Will he be faithful? They have been together for almost a year now.
Thanks,
Carmen
Hi again Carmen,
Your daughter is a Scorpio and her boyfriend is an Aries. They both can seem a bit scatter-brained at times and I understand your concern for them both. Your daughter can be a very ‘giving’ soul, but she must learn to curb her negative attitudes - especially about herself. She is learning about ‘who she is’ in this lifetime. Her soul is on a mission of caring and giving to others. She can be quite psychic too, but must learn the difference between her intuitive/inspirational self - and her negative/worried self. People do like her and sometimes she wonders why they do. She worries about what other people think of her. The more she learns to love herself, the more self-suffient she will be. Right now, she is learning to know herself through her relationship with her boyfriend. If they were to split up…she would be lost. She needs to learn who she is as an independent person while still being in this relationship with him. She must be careful of ‘losing herself’ in this relationship.
They can grow quite strong together. I do see it as a wonderful connection. I really like his spiritual energy for he is a very old soul who sometimes feel uncomfortable being back here on the Earth plane. He didn’t have to be here…he chose to be here in this lifetime. His soul is on a mission and he can accomplish many great things - as long as he finds a way to ‘feel’ comfortable here. When he feels uncomfortable dealing with Earth’s energies - like negativities of all kind, and dealing with heavy responsibilities - like money - he could be prone to bad addictions. The reason for this is that his soul wants to find some peace - the peace he knew so well on the heavenly plane. He is young yet and has all the peer pressures of life - but if he were my son, I would make sure that he realizes that he shouldn’t drink and when he has a headache…he is so sensitive that he needs only one asprin.
Both of these blessed souls are quite creatively psychic and I feel that they ‘are’ in tune with each other. As long as they ‘choose’ to grow with each other…all will be well. If your daughter gets too wrapped up in him and forgets that she has a life and needs to pick a good career path for herself too - to become all that she can be - then the situation may become a bit hard to deal with.
At the basics of it all - they really DO love each other and they both really DO love you! Be a good source of guidance for them both.
Dr. Michelle
What the difference between a guardian angel and a sprite guide? Who should you talk to for help?
Hi Mary,
Excellent question! We all have a very special Guardian Angel that was chosen to be with each of us throughout our current lifetime. This Angel was chosen by us and for us by the experts in the Divine Dimension. Our Guardian Angel guides us along our path, loves us unconditionally…no matter what…and watches over us to keep our spirit feeling loved and safe.
Spirit Guides are a different form of being all together. Spirit Guides were once human too. They lives on earth, we might have met them and were friends with them. They might have been people we knew from a past lifetime - or even in or current one. Spirit Guides are experts on different subjects.
For instance, when I decided that I loved astrology and knew that I had studied and practiced this subject in a past lifetime, the other professional astrologers - in the heavenly plane - that knew the mission I wanted to accomplish - came to me and decided to help with this project. When you read my work, I am not alone, the astrology spirit guides are helping me along and believe me, the talk with me, they walk with me, and they also have no problem telling me when I am ‘off the mark’ and help me to get back on track.
Whatever issues you are having, at any particular time, you can call upon a spirit guide to assist you and bring you the knowlege you are seeking.
Most people have 1 or 2 spirit guides that stay with them throughout their current lifetime to help their soul to grow. I have quite a few, but 3 I am most in touch with. Steven on my right - my masculine side that is so very kind, giving, and has no problem working long hours with me to ‘get it done.’ AND, Diana on my left, who is extremely intuitive, protective, and doesn’t always trust people not to take advantage of me. She is like a protective big sister who is teaching me about boundaries and my femininity. And then there is my extra special guide Mikaya - she is a sister to me from a past indian lifetime we had together. She is extremely creative and loves to work on crafts with me. She has a very healing energy and people feel her around me most often when I am doing my personal sessions. She channels information to me, for my clients, from a higher dimension. She works in the very important Akashic Records Building in Heaven.
I could go on and on about this topic, but I hope that you have an deeper understanding now. When ever you need guidance about anything, there is a soul who will work as your spirit guide to help you get the information you are seeking.
For everyone reading this, the most important thing I want you to understand is that Spirit Guides have a very hard job sometimes. The reason? We don’t listen! That is very frustrating to them.
Think of the most frustrating person you know, okay, imagine yourself working as a Spirit Guide for that person…how frustrated would you be?
From now on, give them credit! The more you begin to listen, the more apt you will be to listen more often. Next time you lose your keys and get frustrated…sit back…and listen…someone special will give you the insight you need to find them…and when you do…laugh and know where your information came from. They certainly love appreciation too.
Dr. Michelle
Hi Michelle:
How do you know if it is your spiritual guides speaking to you versus your ego?For example, I am still torn about a decision about where to live because I want to believe that I will be able to live and work in one city but the commute to the city that I am working in right now is an hour and with construction coming in April it will be much more difficult. My Inner self is telling me to have faith and live in the city where my family and friends are and my ego is dreading the commute.
Thanks
Hey Shelley,
You are absolutely RIGHT. Your spirit guide is telling you to stay right where you are and your ego is being cranky and bringing negativity into your life. That is exactly how you can tell the difference. Your Spirit Guides will positively ‘inspire’ you - make you feel at peace and serene. While your ego is famous - everyone’s is - for being cranky and bringing dreadful thoughts into your mind and heart.
You are on the right track Shelley…keep listening to your inner guidance and pat that ego on the head - give him a cookie too if it will keep him quiet for a little while.
Much love,
Dr. Michelle
Dr. Michelle,
Our mutual friend Mike has set an appointment for me to meet with you in April, however, I’m dieing to know 2 things - everything else will wait for when I meet you in person, of course.
#1 - Do you use astrology to better fulfill your own destiny? and…
#2 - When/How/Will I make a significant impact on the world?
Oh, and #3… can I put your website link on my myspace page?
DOB: 05/06/1986 TIME: 6:19 a.m. LOCATION: Coshocton, OH
Thanks in advance,
Amanda
Hi Amanda,
To answer your questions: #1 - Yes, I absolutely use astrology to better fulfill my destiny. By keeping an eye on the planetary vibrations and how they are moving through my life, I know when the best times are for me to move forward in my life, when to overcome negative thinking, when to start new projects, when to just sit back and go with the flow and so much more! Keep your eye on your personal horoscopes here because I always try to do my best to let everyone know what is surrounding them now and on the horizon for them. Astrology does work! I am living proof of that!
#2 - You are so young to be asking that question and yet, your heart is in the right place. You are in a cycle of your life where you need to make an impact in your own life, bringing beauty, love, stability and security, as well as education and direction into your life first and once you have that - then you can begin to reach out and set your life as an example for others. Your heart wants to help a lot of people and there are many avenues in which you can do this. Just your intention to do so will lead you in the right direction.
#3 - Yes, you can put a link about my site on your myspace page.
See you here in March Amanda!
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Hello Michelle,
I met this guy a year ago, he’s not like any other guy i’ve ever met. I feel like i’m living a fairytale because he’s to good to be true. Is this to good to be true, will there be problems down the line? Is this the real him or is he pretending to be someone he’s not and just saying what he thinks i want to hear? Is he just a stepping stone that’s been sent to me to help me through a very hard part of my life because i just happened to meet him @ the beginning of some very important decisions and changes in my life. Is this a match made in heaven or another pipe dream? I’n Gemini and he’s Scorpio. My birthday is 05/21/74 and his birthday is 11/18/81.
cindyloo
Hi Cindy,
Now, you know how you are…you are always able to see the ‘potential’ in a man and his potential is very good. He worries a lot and his path is supposed to be about ‘fun, laughter, music, dancing, and living a life that is just plain ‘playful’ - so it’s been challenging for him to stay on that path.
Yes, on two accounts of the questions you asked me - this relationship does have wonderful potential too AND he is serious about being in a relationship with you.
Just take it slow and don’t focus all of your attention, devotion, and dedication of your life on him. Stay in balance. He did come along to get you back ‘in the flow’ of life again.
Help him with his ‘potential’ and if you can see what you can do about getting him to understand that if he is ‘playful’ in his life, life will be so much easier for him.
As for you…you are an old soul on a very important mission and when you are down and out…your mission gets put on a long delay.
Love is what keeps the world going around and I am wishing you both the best. It’s not always going to be easy, but base your relationship on a best friendship first and this could be the relationship that you’ve been dreaming about.
Good Luck!
Dr. Michelle
My DOB 12-26-1952 in October 2007 I was served a bleach solution at a Mcdonald’s. Their insurance company is talking of some settlement. What would be an acceptable amount? Or do you see further legal action on this?
Angel Blessings to you!!
Dear Kathy,
Wow…what a terrible thing. I am assuming that you had something to drink - like a pop? and that is where the bleach solution got into your drink - at the pop station. The companies that change the pop bag in there usually clean the pop station out with bleach, but they are supposed to make sure that it’s rinsed out properly and that IS McDonald’s job to make sure that everything is safe for human consumption.
Did you go to the hospital? Did it make you that sick? With hospital papers that you were there and their diagnoses that you were sick from the drink…yes, that would be reason for a lawsuit…but this is a tricky thing too. Did you have any ‘evidence’? The cup with the bleach solution? The more evidence you have, the more you will be able to settle this whole thing sooner.
You asked me about an acceptable amount? I can’t tell you that, but I do feel - after a very long wait - that this whole thing should be settled out of court. McDonalds will want as little publicity as possible.
Do I feel that you should take more legal action on this? It’s just my gut feeling (along with my personal opinion mixed in too) that no you should just see what they will want to settle on. I am sure that you have a lawyer taking care of this whole thing…leave it in your lawyers hands.
No one likes to sue anyone over anything - but, I understand the moral of the issue and if you have medical bills because of what happened, then yes, this big company should easily be able to cover that.
Do I think that you will get incredibly rich because of this? No, absolutaly not. But stand up for the moral of the issue and let’s hope that no one else has to go through what you went through - for that is the lesson here for McDonald’s to make sure that they provide a good food service and always make customer service their highest priority.
Good Luck…let me know what happens.
Dr. Michelle
My Dear Angel Sis,
I was amazed and appreciated every bit of the information I received when we sat together.
First of all I want to thank you for all you do. We are all Blessed by your knowledge and presence. I truely hope all those you have helped here, check out your donation site or make an appointment with you.
FYI:
At Mcdonalds I ordered ice tea, which was served in a decaf coffee pot, luckily I ordered an extra large, which took up most of the pot.
My first thought was about if a child got it, they would have drank it all not knowing the difference.
I called poison control, went to emergency and had several tests to make sure all is well. Thank God it is.
It actually is in Mcdonalds insurance hands right now, the agent advised me I will get a settlement.(yes, I am sure to keep it out of court) I haven’t gone to an attorney. But I also agree on the moral issue. When I first called the Mcdonalds to let them know, the response was: “We don’t use bleach, so sorry, please come back in and we will give you a free value meal.” Hmmm
I was really interested in your input since you have helped set me in the right direction before.
Many Blessings and Miracles to you and your readers.
Hi Again Kathy,
Very interesting information indeed! I’ve been to McDonald’s many times over the years and when I get an iced tea it’s always been at the pop station and never over the counter. Hmmm…the one you went to must do things differently. Keep sticking up for what you believe in and I don’t believe that you need to hire an attorney - but having one on call - like get a phone number of one and at least talk to him over the phone, just in case you might need him/her - and if McDonald’s attorney asks if you have an attorney, at least you have a card to show them, and you could easily make that phone call if you need to.
This is going to be a long slow process, but if you focus positively on the end result - hopefully it will work out a little quicker and easier for you!
Yes, this is a moral issue alright and I am wondering if it really was bleach or if it was some other cleaning product that contains bleach - doesn’t really matter - someone was neglagent and that’s all that matters - when you go to a place like that you should have the peace of mind that their food and drinks are not going to make you sick!
I am sure that you’ve done a good thing. I’m sure that they are double checking everything now so that no one else get’s sick. You were a victim for a good cause and you deserve to be compensated for it too. Think of the whole thing this way and the positive results you desire will be given.
Love you too!
Dr. Michelle
Hi Dr. Michelle:
Wow, what a great site! Your column is awesome! I would appreciate any thoughts/comments/advice that you might offer. My dob: 05/13/59 and my guy’s: 01/12/58. We’ve been dating off and on for the past 5 1/2 years. We’ve been steady for the last year. He’s wonderful and we get along well. We are both divorced, have children and maintain separate homes. We agreed that while our children are young and living in our homes, we don’t want to cohabitate and step-parent one another’s children. We enjoy one another’s company and spend time together away from our kids and with our kids together. While things seem great when we do get together, I wonder if you see a long term future? Are we compatible enough to continue on dating, while our kids are living with us? And once our kids leave the nest,is there enough to sustain us toward a more solid/permanent relationship? Any insight will be appreciated. Thank you, Liz!
Hi Liz,
I feel that the situation you have going between you and your special Capricorn friend is remarkably special! Yes, absolutely, I see a wonderful relationship between the two of you NOW and in the future. Your relationship with each other is based on a mutual respect and best friendship first and will lead to a deeper committment in the future. You, being the lovable Taurus, need to be patient. The more reserved Cappy man does love you and wants to make sure that everything is secure (in all areas of everyone’s life) before moving forward - the way that you want to - so it’s going to take lots of patience. But all in all…EXCELLENT RELATIONSHIP indeed!
Dr. Michelle
Dear Michelle,
I have a birthday wish for a very dear friend of mine. She is like NO person I ever met. I know she a ARIES but her personality isn’t , never seen her temper, moody and never selfish in her life! The most positive warm heart patience person you ever met. She took care of her family when her mom had a nerves brake down and end up in a hospital, HOW many knows how to pay bills, cook and clean for three sibling and a dad how couldn’t do this, at eighteen? Her pay back, was she was kick out of her home a week after her graduation NO place to go! HER EX love her so that he thought that he had the right to put something in her coffee ( not a good thing) to show how much he loved her..she is divorce but he puts her through HELL there too! There too…. NO place to go! She never act like a victim of anything..just a learning lesson is what she calles it? She is always going out of her way for people(GREAT FRIEND)..she has many friends but the one thing everyone need is a pair of warm loving arms around you, that special someone? She deserves a Prince, Knight of Shining Armor for the good she does for everyone else!
She deserve the best!
Her birthday is 3-29-58
Thank-you so much
Cindyjean
Hi CindyJean,
Obviously you have a very dear heart yourself and you want to see your special friend happy. She is an old soul and other people’s joy IS her joy. I totally understand that. She does what she has to do, with no thought of herself, to help people in every way possible. Again, I totally understand that. But, she has to reach a level of spiritual maturity to understand that HER life is very important too. The absolute best gift in the world that you can give her is a gift of getting a reading with me. Purchase her a gift certificate for a very special reading and I know…without a doubt…that she will begin to tap into her true spiritual being and allow herself to attract right relationships into her life. Without a session, and the right guidance, I’m afraid she is going to continue the pattern of being a martyr and attracting wrong relationships into her life that use and abuse her until she finally says, “I’m not taking this anymore!” Let’s see if we can bring her that enlightenment sooner and help her to avoid the pitfalls of even more heartache.
Thanks for writing to me…you are a wonderful soul to care about your friend so much. I’ll await to hear from you about purchasing a gift certificate for her. Contact me directly through my e-mail at: michelle@astroenlightenment.com
Love, Light, and Peace Always,
Dr. Michelle
Dear Dr Michelle,
I was reading something about the new moon on march 7th at 12:14 pm and people are suppose to write their abundance checks at that time. Can you please explain this to me?
thanks
Lena
Hi Lena,
Yes, when the New Moon times of the month roll around it is always a good idea to take a blank check and write PAID IN FULL in both areas where you put in the amounts…and then sign it “Universal Law of Abundance” at the bottom. Write the check out to yourself at the top there too. Then keep this check where you want to bring in money, like in your checkbook. Or, keep it where you will see it as often as possible to help you feel abundant in every area of your life.
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Iam aquarius 11/02/63, living in turmoil, when will I be free from this, or more to the point when is the “right” time to act. I live with a volitile cancer 1/7/59, the three teenagers are away from home Uni 7/6/88, College 27/6/90 and boarding school 14/8/90.
Teri,
I have compassion for your situation, but you must be wise enough to realize that what is happening in the outside circumstances of your life is a reflection of the inside circumstances of what you put yourself through. When we allow ourselves to feel joy…we create joy…we attract joy…and where joy IS no negativities - from other people etc. can or will affect or infect us.
What I feel about your particular situation is that for a very long time now - most of your life - you’ve been dealing with internal ‘changes, challenges, and twists of fate’ and you can easily - and probably have - blamed other people for these situations and the way that you feel.
No one can ‘make’ you feel any particular way unless ‘you’ let them.
The man you live with, the Cancer, also has these issues and has lived with these issues inside of himself too. You love each other very much - this is can easily feel - but what you don’t realize is that you are both a ‘mirror’ for each other. What you don’t like about him…you have inside of you too…and visa versa.
Obviously…if the circumstances were so bad that you wanted to leave - as I feel that you have - you would have done so a long time ago. What you have here is an ‘on again/off again’ ‘love/hate’ relationship going on. A karmic relationship where you are learning about your insecurities and strengths through him and he is also doing the same thing through you (although, I know, he doesn’t communicate as well as you would like him to, but that is how he is)
Neither of you can change the other, but before you pack up and totally leave, you need to ponder over if you feel that there is anything to salvage here. Truth is what matters and the two of you are like ships passing in the night. You live together, you dump your frustrations on each other - and as weird as it sounds - the two of you really do love each other.
You asked me about when the right time is to act? NOW…always in the NOW is the right time to act…but…you must first figure out what ‘you’ truly want to do and for you…that’s confusing…always confusing.
I say, find a quiet space, a place where you can go to and think. Work on tapping into the peace within you. It might be hard, but it is in there. Start figuring out how you can have this sense of peace in your life because without it, no matter where you go, you are always going to feel unhappy, worried, upset, and you will want to blame everyone else and every thing else. For this is your biggest challenge in this lifetime - your main soul lesson - to enjoy the changes that you create and find accomplishment within your challenges, and when twists of fate arrive - you will realize that you CAN turn a negative situation into a positive one.
Difficult lesson but you can do it…if you want to!
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
PS. If you get befuddled and can’t figure things out…get a session with me and you will see that the answers you’ve been seeking for so long are right there waiting for you.
Hi Michelle
I am pleased you are feeling better. The question I have been pondering is about our life path numbers - I understand that each individual number has specific issues attached which we want to learn from during our incarnation, but do the numbers give an indication on the age of our soul. When I say this I mean is someone with a lifepath 8 an older soul than someone with a lifepath number 3, Or is this just random?
I am trying to understand, so any information will be greatly received.
Thanks
Angie
Hi Angie,
You are asking me about life path numbers and how they allow us to know what our current ‘paths’ are in this lifetime. Yes, this is extremely important for everyone to know about and when a person has a session with me, this is the very first place that I start because everyone needs to know ‘why’ they are here in this lifetime, what gifts they are bringing in, and what lessons they are here to learn.
You asked me about the age of our Soul and if lifepath numbers allow us to know how many prior lives we have lived. The only numbers that even remotely allow me to know this are the “Master Numbers” for these very special souls didn’t have to be here this time around but chose to be here as a special service for the student souls on our Earth plane.
Yes, the lifepath numbers are random…except for the Master Souls.
You have have a lifetime where you choose the 1 path and the next lifetime you may choose the 8 path and on and on until all paths are experienced, understood, and the spiritual tests are passed. Then a soul may evolve into a Master Soul. Most Souls have to go through a path over and over again if they don’t learn from it and make the most of it the first time around.
I hope I’ve been able to help you understand your question better and if you have any further questions about this important matter, please feel free to drop me a private e-mail at: michelle@astroenlightenment.com
Glad to be of service!
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
I’m sag. ascendant, Capricorn Sun, with a Gemini moon…trying to figure out where I’m going in this life…I don’t know why my relationships are struggling. The guy that I’m in A friendship relationship with has Gemini moon as well…do you think he could be the one ….my soul mate? right now…over the weekend something happened and we haven’t talked. We talk every day… His sun is cancer and his ascendant is Taurus thanks…I love your website!!!
Hi Laura,
Without doing a personal session for you and ‘totally’ being able to look at your chart (and his too) and being able to be completely ‘in-tuned’ with your vibrations - like I would be able to do if you have a session with me, all I can do is tell you that people with Gemini moons sure do a lot of ‘thinking’ and don’t have as much spontanious abilities to always bring that great passion into their lives. They ‘think’ they have to have everything all figured out and planned before making any forward moves that have to do with ‘feelings’ and ‘relationships’
Whatever you and your friend are going through, I do feel that it’s only a very temperary misunderstanding and by the time you read this you both have probably figured this out and are back on track to being good friends again. Realize too that Cancer Sun sign people need and deserve LOTS of positive attention and true love or else they get very moody. Totally understandable.
If you want to take a good look into where your life is heading in every direction of your life, I highly suggest that you contact me via e-mail at: michelle@astroenlightenment.com and set up a personal appointment for yourself. Go back to the home page and click on “Testimonials” and you will be able to read what others are accomplishing and feeling since having a session with me.
Good Luck to you in all you do and I hope to hear from you soon!
Dr. Michelle
Hello Michelle, I stumbled upon “The Light of a New Beginning” in Michelle’s Musings and thought it was fantastic! It was uncanny how it resonated with me in a way that I wasn’t expecting.
Thank you for the opportunity to ask a question. I’m hoping that I truly am a “late bloomer” and that the right career and a true love will indeed collide with me at some point soon, despite the cross-purposes I seem to struggle with. I feel that major changes may be in the offing but I have no idea how I can best help myself and position myself for these. Any insight and guidance you could offer would be greatly appreciated.
Here’s my astro data: June 10, 1968 Goa, India 7:15 p.m. local time ASC = 22 SAG 55
I wish you the very best in all of your endeavors.
With gratitude,
Margaret
Hi Margaret,
All you have to do is keep your focus, which I know is a hard thing to do being a Gemini. Sometimes you feel as if you are positively focusing on one thing and a million other things seem to be creeping into your mind…but…if you positively visualize on what you desire to bring into your life…exactly the way you desire it to…you will activate The Universal Law of Attraction and if you don’t doubt - which I know is another hard thing to do - you will attract what you desire! The Universal Law of Attraction is never wrong. Even when we delay our progress by doubting - sooner or later - and with so many doubts it will usually be later - thus the ‘late bloomer’ qualities - you will finally begin to live the life you have desired for so long!
I can ‘feel’ that you are a perfectionist at heart and that is not a bad thing - but - I challenge you to try to be more happily ‘creative’ and if you just give that a try…soon your life will begin to turn around in your favor.
You’ve really been going through a major life changing period of time since your last birthday and finally you are beginning to use more of your creative energy!
Remember that God put You in charge of…YOU! Now, start taking better care of yourself and the changes you desire will come around.
I’m wishing you all the good luck you desire!
Dr. Michelle
Dearest Michelle,
I am need of your wise words and guidance as I feel that things are coming undone with my family. My daughter is under so much stress and frustrated with things in her life right now and I feel that she is not thinking correctly and making bad decisions with her health and her relationships. I have left you her birthdate at your email site. Please help me guide her and help her. I feel that you can guide me and give me strength in this very difficult matter.
Thank you so very much,
Carmen
Dear Carmen,
Your daughter wants to do things her own way and “yes” it is the hardest thing to do for us mothers is to let our children (although your daughter is a young adult now…to you she is still a child) to do things their own way. She will continue to rebel against you because her path in life IS to find her own way.
Her life path is a 34/7 and she currently is also in a 34/7 cycle, which means that NOW is the time for her to do things completely her own way! I know that she loves you, there is no doubt about that, but I can’t tell you how much she is going to do things her own way…for better or worse right now…she HAS to do things her own way.
Best thing for you to do is put this whole matter in the hands of a Higher Power and keep your faith strong. With your whole heart, see her surrounded in light and then let her go. That is truly all you can do right now.
Being the mother of 5 children myself (26.24,19,16,15) and having such a brilliant mother myself, our motto has always been: “Give them enough rope and see what they do with it…if they hang themselves…they will learn!”
Yes, we always come running to the rescue and seem to believe that it is us…the mothers…that need to pick up the pieces…but this doesn’t need to be so. Tell your daughter that she now has all the freedom she desires and that from now on she has to be completely responsible for herself. If she desires something from you, then she will have to earn it. And then, let that be that! If she get’s herself into trouble in any way, then she will have to learn for herself.
She doesn’t desire to be controlled and will only rebel against any form of control right now…so, let her go and maybe, just maybe, she will begin to start making right choices for herself.
It’s time for the bird to leave the nest Carmen and you know what mother birds do? They push their young out of the nest and allow them to learn how to fly on their own. It’s not easy…I understand…but when they do begin to fly on their own it’s the greatest joy your heart will ever know!
My prayers are with you!
Love and Light,
Dr. Michelle
PS. If you continue having heartache about this issue and others in your life…it’s time for ‘you’ to set up an appointment with me. A personal appointment for yourself will be the greatest gift you can give to yourself right now. Take your attention off of what your daughter is doing and put that energy back on yourself…after all…your life is super important too!
dearest Dr Michelle,
My ex has been out of work since November been very challenging for me financially I keep debating to file the contempt papers in fear it may get decreased. He owes me over 2,000 and right now I can use it. Should I file these papers and take the gamble the child support might get reduced or hold off? I know this is a lesson for me to not allow him to bully me. But, my support is already going to be cut in a few months with my oldest graduating high school.
Lena
My Dear Lena,
Of course you should file the papers with the court, don’t worry about your child support getting decreased, better to have it decreased than not getting anything at all. Right now you just have an agreement between the two of you and he’s supposed to pay you directly, but if you go through the court system, they will make him have to pay you the back child support as it is in arrearage to you. At least this way, he will have to pay you the back child support and not just say that he doesn’t have to pay you anything at all.
I know that you are in Florida, but here in Michigan we have a system called Michigan Family Services and the man who owes he child support has to pay them directly and then they will send you a check for the amount that you are supposed to receive from him. They are the ones that keep tabs on how much he owes you and even when your children are older, he will still have to pay until all of his arrearages are paid up.
There has to be some kind of government agency like this in Florida too and I would highly recommend you to look into it. You won’t be losing out if you use this free government agency, for that is what they are set up to do…to take care of single mothers who’s ex’s owe them child support.
Wait no longer. File the papers and give yourself the peace of mind that you deserve.
Good Luck!
Dr. Michelle
Hi Dr Michelle,
My Partner and I have been together now for almost 2 years (on May 20th) and living together for the last 8 months. My birthday is 3rd Sept 1969 and my partner’s is 28th June 1963. I would like to move our relationship on to the next stage with the ultimate aim of getting married and having children. Can you see this happening for us?
Many thanks,
Cathryn
Hi Cathyrn,
This relationship is pretty serious for the both of you. Neither one of you would have even contemplated the ‘living together’ situation had you both not thought your relationship was going to go to a more committed level.
The reason I say this is because you are a Virgo (and lots of Virgo’s stay single. The sign that is the greatest bachlor, bachlorettes of the zodiac are Sagittarians and Virgo’s are only 2nd to them) and along with your sense of dedication to this wonderful and lovable Cancer man is the fact that your destiny path is 37/1 - and people on a #1 destiny path usually don’t get married either and totally enjoy being in control of every aspect of their life - not leaving any room for compromise, teamwork, and partnerships.
BUT, obviousely you are head over heals in love with this wonderful Cancer man and that is wonderful. He is a serious type of individual too, for his destiny path is 35/8 and having an 8 for his path means that he is a true male energy indeed! Being such, he would desire to have control too and if he lost control, it would take a direct hit on his self-esteem and he could become very depressed.
You are both powerful people who can accomplish alot in your personal lives outside of the relationship. Together, if there continues to be lots of love, teamwork, understanding, and harmony between the two of you, you could both give to each other such a wonderful sense of true love and peace away from the stresses of the outside world. That said, I think this is a wonderful match!
As for children…that is a big step for ‘you’ to think about too. I feel that he would make a wonderful Father indeed. This decision, I believe, is going to have to come from within ‘you’ for your decision to have children is a big one indeed!
If you would like further information, I would suggest you set up a personal appointment with me, for there is only so much I can say in this column and much more personal information I can give to you privately.
To wrap it up though…this relationship has a beautiful chance of blooming!
Dr. Michelle
Hi Dr. Michelle. Thank you for doing this awesome site.
I was involved with a man that I am still very very attracted to. I walked away from him six months ago because he wasn’t treating me well. He wasn’t mean but didn’t want to officially “date” and would spend all night flirting with other women then want to go home with me. I’m afraid that I bailed too quickly (after 1.5 yrs) and if I’d stuck it out we’d have been great together. Our town is small and I see him all the time. All I say is a casual “hi, how are you” and go about doing my own thing. He has not gone out of his way to talk to me but I catch him watching me. He has never been married and I’ve never seen him with another woman - just all the flirting. What gives here? I really cared about this guy and think about him all the time. A lot of men like me… I just don’t like them so when I find a guy that gets me excited I’m thrilled. When it doesn’t work out I’m a wreck. Me 4/21/1960, him 5/30/1961. Thanks.
Hi Vicky,
I am very happy that you are enjoying my awesome spiritual astrology site. Thank you for letting me know that you are enjoying it. Your comment is greatly appreciated! Spread the word and let all of your family and friends know and this will help to spread the joy throughout the world! This site is my little way of bringing love, light, and peace to everyone reading it and your special comments help to keep the love flowing too.
Now, onto your important question about this Gemini guy that has your passionate attention.
I can only tell you the truth, for it is the truth that will set you free. This man, born 5/30/1961 is a kind and lovable fellow, the problem is that he is totally unobtainable. This means that he does not want a commitment…not now…and probably never. He likes to play and desires to keep his life free of responsibility and relationship entanglements. When things get too dramatic, he will bail out. This is just what he does and what he will continue to do.
I understand your feelings for him because you have some ‘abandonment and trust’ issues that you are learning about in your lifetime and most of the time we will attract into our lives the very things we need to learn from. Your lesson of learning to trust and not feel abandoned will come from you learning how to have more self-love and learning how not to abandon yourself…to always learn how to be your own bestfriend and take the paths of life that will bring you joy…not misery.
My best advice for you on this matter is to realize that this relationship isn’t going to go anywhere that will lead you towards a solid commitment in anyway. I believe you already knew that when you ‘bailed out’ of this situation before. The fact that he still looks at you is easy enough to understand, for I am sure that he remembers the good times you both had together,but he also has a big enough ego that he is looking at you to see if you are looking at him too because he wants to believe that you are still attracted to him…he wants to believe that every pretty woman is attracted to him.
Anyways, if I were you, I would be polite and let go of this whole situation. Start visualizing a much better relationship for yourself with someone who will truly love you the way that you desire to be loved.
If I can be of further assistance, e-mail me at: michelle@astroenlightenment.com
You need to begin to take the first step in the right direction towards attracting what is for your highest good in your life, regarding every area of your life…if you desire to know more about how to do this then it’s certainly time for you to think about setting up an in-depth session with me. I’d be very happy to assist you.
Love, Light, and Peace Always,
Dr. Michelle
Hello Dr. Michelle,
I have an 18 yr old daughter who is making me crazy right now. As far as she is concerned I know nothing, have no idea how the real world and young adults do things these days, and has a 21 yr old boy friend who is ok, but I really think he takes advantage of her. She would sit around all day because he is supposed to see her, but then he’d do something with his buddies. She waits and abandons her girl friends because he might show up. Her birthday iw 10-16-89 and his is 10-30-86. Any suggestions….it’s hard to treat her like an adult when she doesn’t seem to act like one (she’s also looking for a job and thinks an application or two on line is sufficient). Being a control freak I bite my tongue a lot of the time. Any insite would be appreciated. Peace
Hi Margie,
Welcome to Motherhood! As the mother of 5 children myself (25,24,19,16,15) let me tell you that no amount of worrying is ever going to do any good at all. My mother had a saying, “Give them enough rope and they’ll hang themselves with it.” - She is a scorpio and I didn’t think any child should hang themselves with anything, but as my children grew, I began to see the sense of humor behind her words. What her saying really means is that we give birth to our children, but our children still have their own lessons, karma, life to live on their own and inevitably, they have to be the one’s to make their own decisions.
My advice to you, because you have a dramatic Libra daughter, is to let her make her own decisions about things. Kids these days are a lot slower than we were growing up. I remember being 18 and the day after I graduated from High School (a strict Catholic High School) I started my first job working as a secretary for 8 male bosses. An executive company and me as the only secretary! Then, I got even more ambitious and took on a second job too at night and on weekends. Geez…what was I thinking? I look back on those days and wish I had the time that these kids do now to just be a kid. Seems we grew up way too fast in those days…being really ambitious to work and go to college and grow into adults.
Don’t worry so much about your daughter. If she wants to stay home and wait for her boyfriend who may or may not call her…let her do that. But, don’t you stand there and fret along with her because that will only make matters worse. You go about your business of living your life joyfully because ‘you’ being joyful is going to set a good example for her!
Libra’s thrive in relationships. They need a relationship to ‘feel’ good about themselves. For better or worse they are always striving for a relationship to save them from themselves. But, what they learn in the end is that the best relationship they can ever have IS with their own self. Let go of your control because that is never going to make matters better. As you relinquish your control and tell her, “do whatever you want to do” she will wonder why you are letting her figure things out for herself…eventually, by you pulling away…she will draw more emotionally closer to you. It will take time, but she needs to figure things out for herself.
You’ll be amazed Margie…they do grow up and they do get wiser and more responsible on their own. My two eldest son and daughter are doing great! My 19 year old is still finding her way but comes up with new ideas every day.
Good Luck with Motherhood and Menopause because God knows they both feel the same!~ Kids create hot flashes when we let them!
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
dear Dr Michelle,
do you think my ex husband will pay me some money this month in back child support?
I filed the papers like you suggested but he has 30 days to respond and my youngest begged me not have him put in jail, but I need my money and have to look out for my children’s welfare.
thankyou
I will talk to you probably in a few weeks..x
Hi again Lena,
You are going to have to be very patient regarding ‘receiving’ of your back child support, but at least you have filed the correct paperwork with the authorities and that should give you the peace of mind that you ‘will’ receive the money that is owed to you. No matter how long it takes - and I feel two things about your ex 1)He is feeling guilty and does want to pay you because the longer that he doesn’t the more his conscious is bugging him and 2)He is pretending that he is strapped for money right now and he is thinking about this and what he’s going to do about paying his own bills and well as getting some money to you.
The process is in play and there will come a day - hopefully not in the too distant future - when you will begin getting the money that is owed to you and the children. In the meantime…surround the whole situation with LIGHT and know that the positive energy of LIGHT will help everything move along as it should…and even a little more quickly too.
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Dear Dr. Michelle,
I have to share with you and everyone else that comes to your website and incredible and beautiful real story. My mom passed away on April 3, 2008, just about a week ago. She was only 70 years old. We had her at the hospice house for just one day. The doctor’s had told us she only had about 2 weeks to live. My brothers, sister and I were with her at the time of her passing. We told her how much we love her and we hugged, carassed and kissed her for 3 hours straight. This is where it all becomes incredible. At one point while she was breathing very sporadic, she started a deep humming. It was a tune, we had never heard. It was almost “angelic” and very soothing to us. She hummed twice as she was passing. I had heard that when the angels are coming for you, they are singing and (that very rare and special) the person passing starts to hum the very song the angels are singing. I believe in my heart that my mom was hearing the angels sing. She passed away with me kissing her forehead and cheeks and telling her how much I loved her and to go in peace and follow the light. I just had to share this with you and ask you if you had ever heard anything like this before. I need to know if you or any of your readers had ever heard about this. Please let me know. Heaven has a new angel and her name is Sylvia.
Thank you
Mel(Carmen)
Hi Carmen,
First of all my deepest condolences to you and your family. Secondly, absolutely YES…Sylvia IS WITH THE ANGELS! I have heard about this natural phenomenon happening about the singing of the angels, but it’s a rare thing indeed that your mom was able to verbally tune in and sing along with them. This was certainly a sign for you and the other people that were with you that heard Mom singing along with them! What a wonderful, wonderful, wonderful story! Thank you so very much for sharing your personally uplifting true story with us all!
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Dear Dr. Michelle,
My name is Jessica and my birth date is 6/10/80. I’m writing because I have this feeling that something BIG is going to happen in my life soon and I was wondering if you are reading the same thing. When I think about it I feel nervous because it is going to change my life too drastically. Will I be ready when it gets here? Where you see life taking me? I’m definitely up for a wild ride, but I want it to be a positive and fun ride.
Cheers!
Jessie
Hi Jessica,
Yes, you are right, this year of 2008 IS going to be a good one for you. Your positive attitude is going to bring all kinds of great opportunities your way!
Will you be able to handle them? Of course you will!
God never gives us more than we can handle!
You have a pretty good idea about what you desire to manifest for your life and some of these situations are coming your way soon. Others will too but at a later time as you learn to ‘relinquish control and not get depressed when situations don’t work out exactly your way. You are being prepared for what you desire and even though there may be some sidetracks along the way…I am sure that as long as you keep the attitude you have right now flowing positively…everything will turn out just right for you.
Love, Fun, and Happiness!
Dr. Michelle
Hi, I am a Leo 8/12/62 at 4:12 p.m. I have been looking for my passion in life for what seems like a very long time. I feel like I really don’t know what it is that I’m looking for. Help!!!
Hi Rosie,
I totally understand your dilemma. You feel like an alien that was dropped on the wrong planet! Where are all the good people? Why can’t people just get along and love each other already?!!
My Dear Rosie…you are a very old soul who has chosen to come back on this earth plane this time around. You chose this in order to bring your Angelic Love and Light into this world and share it with all the people you will meet. Your heart is so filled with unconditional love and light. Any career that you choose should be in a humanitarian field where you are interacting with many people. Also working with pets, or the environment would be a blessing. You have lots of healing energy and it’s sooo important that you remember why you chose to come back to this earth plane again!
I Highly recommend that you e-mail me privately at: michelle@astroenlightenment.com and I’ll explain this more to you.
The sadness and misdirection you’ve been feeling is due to the negative gravity of this denser earth plane. But, your mission here is an important one and you need to stay as BRIGHT and FULL OF LIGHT as you can be.
E-mail me Spiritual Sister…I’ll help you feel aligned again!
Love, Light, and Peace to you Always,
Dr. Michelle
Hi Michelle, I love your site and I check in regularly and carry with me your wisdom throughout the week. I have really strong feelings for this friend of mine who brings me great joy and also crushing disappointments. My dob is 5/15/1981 and his is 5/14/1975. We began our friendship 2 years ago on our birthday. My life has changed quite a bit ever since. But am i looking for a relationship with the wrong person? What is blocking me from recieving the love I want so much?
Hi Gloria,
Actually, the two of you are a good match. Understand that when two people of the same sign are in a relationship, the older of the two takes on the main sign - in your case your boyfriend is the Taurus - and his vibration throws you into the opposite sign which is Scorpio!
Even though you are a Taurus sun sign, when being around him your vibration will change into one of a Scorpio sun sign. Now, if you can be an ‘evolved and creative’ Scorpio persona…this relationship can work, but if you become negative - and Scorpio vibrations are known to be negative “thinking about the worst thing that can happen, just in case it happens, and thus attracting negative situations into their lives” then you are going to have a very unhappy and ego centered relationship. You don’t want that! I know you don’t want that! Your life path is the number ‘3′ - thus you are a happy-go-lucky 3 chicky who is here to bring lots of love and sunshine, music, dance, and play into your life and the lives of those around you. When things get too ’serious and negative’ you will dim your light and become unhappy - and - when you are unhappy everyone around you will be unhappy too. Be the ‘3′ chick you are meant to be!!!
As for your guy friend - his path is 32/5 - one of many changes, challenges, and twists of fate. But, he is a dedicated and committed soul - a hardworking soul when he wants to be - and as long as he is honest, truthful, and learns to positively handle the major drama’s of the situations and people in his life then all will be well.
I feel that the two of you have met to teach each other how to be more open to feelings. You to bring more JOY into his life and Him to bring more grounding and seriousness into your life.
Can this lead to something more? He is a dedicated soul and once a friend with him is always a friend with him and you can easily be this way too. This relationship has to be open for good communication and for flexibility and understanding. A challenging relationship, but one that can turn out very good in the end.
One more point to mention is that He does hang onto the past ALOT and it’s very hard for him to ‘let go’ of situations he’s been through before - especially in relationships. He is a dedicated soul, but he also could be afraid to move forward due to a past relationship with someone else.
Main thing here is for YOU to be HAPPY in your own personal life…no matter what! Before even thinking about getting involved in a serious relationship, figure out what personal passions you have and let your inner-light shine!
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Hi, Michele,
It’s your “paranoid” friend from about a month ago. Remember? The website and my name/address…please help. I apologize for overreacting.
Well, first, I’d like to acknowledge one of your writers, Carmen, and say that her Mom is probably watching them as we speak. That’s the advice you had given to me and I swear by it now. Carmen’s story was very touching…I miss my mother also.
After your initial response to me, I tried immensely to wake up every day in a good mood. The easy part was thinking of you first! Truly your words of advice and encouragement were a blessing. It is still difficult for me to be consistent, especially since times are tough these days. Lately, I am frazzled to say the least but try like heck to stay positive. We are getting deeper & deeper in debt, but our kids are ok and so far, we are healthy, God willing. Unfortunately, I am obsessed with our financial picture…and it’s an unhealthy obsessed. Have something to do with the month before someone’s birthday? Remember mine is May 23, 1963? Am I becoming obsessed with this horoscope thing, too? Although some of it rings true, such as the basics, all forecasts are different. I keep reading all of them looking for “the answers”.
Have a great day!
Dearest Donna,
Thank you for your beautiful comments. Try each moment to BE in a positive frame of mind. You want to activate the Universal Law of Attraction in a positive way. When you only think about LACK…guess what you get…yep, even more lack and I know that you don’t want to attract that.
Say to yourself, “I choose to attract financial well-being easily into my life.” Try to act as if financial well-being is already in your life. You are not lieing to yourself, but you will be on the right track of bringing more prosperity and opportunities into your life.
Yes, it is always hard when your birthday is 1 month away and the Sun is transiting naturally through your 12th house - as it always does when the sun is in the sign that is one ahead of yours. Since the Sun is now in the sign of Taurus and you are a Gemini, yes this is a time of ‘releasement and forgiveness’ for you - but you can still be positive with the right ‘attitude of gratitude’ for all that IS NOW going RIGHT in your life.
Let go of paranoid feelings for they do not serve your Highest Good. Think only about what does serve your Highest Good…the things that are good happening now and the good things you deeply desire to attract into your life.
I’m glad to have been able to inspire you and help you to inspire yourself. This is also a good time (sun in the 12th) for you to enhance your own sense of spirituality and inner-guidance. How can you tell when you are inspired? If a thought or feeling comes to you that brings you JOY…that inspiration is coming from your Higher Self…if you feel a feeling or thought that brings you down…that thought or feeling is coming from your ‘ego’ mind. Thank it for bringing these thoughts to you and then say, “I choose…” and fill in the blank with what you desire. Practice this often! Soon you should begin to see some positive results.
May you have a great day too!
Dr. Michelle
Dear Michelle,
Firstly I want to thank you for your absolutely amazing insights and intuitive astrology pages. I only discovered your site about 6 months ago and now I am referring to it all the time. You are a true blessing and orb of light to many many people. As I was reading the other entries and questions to you…. I couldn’t help but see that you were right once again….I am gleaning so much from each question to you. Thankyou again!
My question is this. I left an unhappy marriage 7 years ago. For a long time I was very needy and had many soul-lessons to learn in regards to who and what is right for me, made alot of mistakes and choices and (hopefully) have grown wiser for the experiences. I am single again, and just gently basking in this, thinking about and planning my new business which is Soul-related also, so it is an important time for me.
Two and a half years ago I met a man… It was just one chance meeting, and since we were both involved at the time…nothing came of it. Just before Easter, I recieved a call from him…he had broken up from this relationship and wondered if we could meet. I was totally surprised and delighted that he even still had my contact details…and so we began to see one another as friends. I have since learned that he is HIV positive and slowly learning that we have come from very different pasts, but I feel strongly that there is still a Karmic lesson that I need to learn here….or, am I just being totally naive? He has reformed alot and is a very spiritual person which is what I love about this Soul….I dont’ know what to do….my feelings have been put on hold as a result of the quite shocking things he has shared with me about his past, and yet I want to be there to help him too (he is going through hell at the moment) I know everyone needs a chance and he has truly made a great effort to turn his life around. Do you see any future for us Michelle, or is it really a lost cause? My birthdate is 27/08/1959 and his is 12/05/1960, I was born just before midnight and I am unsure of his birthtime.
Any insights into this baffling situation would be so welcomed.
Many blessings of Love and Light,
Illire
Dear Illire,
I can feel what you’ve been going through and let me reassure you that this special friendship that you have with your friend born 5/12/1960 is a genuine one. I believe that he came back into your life for a very special purpose and that purpose is for you to use your own sense of healing, kindness, and unconditional love and help him get closer to his own inner-light and strengthen his beliefs and faiths so that he can be calm and prepared for the next step in his personal journey.
I understand that this is going to be a bit hard on you because your heart is going to be pulled in so many different directions, but what you learn through this beautiful friendship/relationship is going to stay with you for the rest of your life and help you to help so many others as you begin to start in your new spiritual journey and career.
I see your friendship together as a blessing for both of you. I believe that you know it and I know his soul was directed to come and find you once again.
Be kind to each other, cherish the time that you have with each other, share good communication with each other always, and feel free to share your deepest feelings with each other.
I truly wish you both all the best and good luck in your new career journey! Thank you also for your kind and sincere words about my work. The best advice I can give you is: “When you genuinely give from your heart and let your inner light shine…miracles do happen!”
Love from the Angels,
Dr. Michelle
Hi i WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IS FUTURE WILL BE BRIGHT THIS YEAR, REGARDING LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP AND FINANCIAL 12-14-1975. THINGS FOR ME SEEM TO BE NOT GOING THE WAY I PLAN. I CAN TELL WHEN IT’S A FULL MOON BECAUSE I GO THRU CRAZY THOUGHTS. THE GUY I’M IN LOVE WITH SEEMS TO BE NOTHING BUT A BIG LIAR. THIS LAST MONTH MUST WAS A FULL MOON.
Charita,
I can tell you that this year of 2008 equals a 1 vibration and that anything new started this year - if done with a positive attitude - will bring fruits of success in the next 8 years to come.
For you personally, I will need to take a look at your transit chart for this year and also your progressed chart to see what vibrations are around you and what choices you have for the paths ahead.
The only way for me to do this is through either and indepth session with me (which you have had with me before in August of 2007) or by purchasing a 1 year transit report (you can find out more about this report by taking a look at the page “My Services for You” here on my website).
As for the man you are in love with that keeps lieing to you all I can say is to first be honest with yourself. Do you need this grief in your life? You have to make wise decisions that will bring you more positive opportunities in your life and when we are blocked by the negative ones, you may miss out on the good ones.
One thing I know ‘for sure’ is that when God shuts one door in our life, another better door does open when we are ready.
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Dear Michelle,
My birthdate is 3-2-67. For the past 3 years I have been suffering from agonizing pain in my left pelvic area.After many doctors ,tests,and a long journey through the health care system, I have ended up with a diagnosis of a deep pelvic muscular spasm.
I went through a course of treatment but now have more pain in my lower back.I don’t want to see another doctor again and take another test to end up being disposed of when the insurance limit for treatment runs out.
I am just at a loss of what to do and how to end this pain in my body. I am open to all suggestions.
Thank you!
Hi Susan,
I’m at a loss of words about your situation. I see that your birthday is 3/2/1967 - My birthay is also March 2nd and one thing I know about us March 2nd babies is that we are extremely sensitive.
What I am feeling about your situation is that you have a ‘pinched’ something here…I don’t have the right words for it, but what does your GYN say? Could this be a situation with one of your falopean (please forgive me because I don’t know how to spell that) tubes? I psychically feel something pinched off here (did you have your tubes tied?) This pain feels like it’s coming from the inside (female organs) and that is why I am wondering what your GYN said about this matter.
Also, yes, you have a very sensitive lower back, but I don’t feel that the two things are one in the same as far as your pain goes.
Since I am picking up on something being pinched or blocked up, and it being a very personal matter (which I thought might be female issues) maybe this could also be intestine issues…being pinched or blocked. Have you had a colonoscopy or have they checked for issues regarding this?
You would think that medical doctors with all the schooling they go through would have the answers to these issues.
I’m stumped on this issue other than what I wrote to you above. You can e-mail though and let me know how you are doing and give me the answers to my above questions and I’ll see if I can feel anything else about this matter. My e-mail address is: michelle@astroenlightenment.com
I’ll keep you in my prayers and I wish you all the best. I hope that a competent and wise medical doctor crosses your path and gives you the medical answer that you are seeking and I pray that it is easy to take care of so that you aren’t in any more pain. Take it easy and allow the healing of the angels to take care of you too.
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Hello again, my friend, Michele!
I have been taking your advice and trying my best to attract positive surroundings to become a more positive person (emotionally, mentally & financially). It’s difficult to stay on an even keel. One minute happy and the next is gloomy. I think I let too many things & people influence my moods. I pray at nite, and during the day, when I’m really feeling paranoid.
I don’t want to sound superficial or perhaps immature, but I just believe the financial aspect of our lives at home has a major impact on my daily life. I’m doing all the worrying, you see. My husband and of course children don’t worry about making ends meet.
Is there an end in sight for my family? We never take vacations, we don’t spend frivolously and so on. Much of our time spent is free - healthy one on one time together. Yes, this is absolutely dear to me! I thank God we are healthy and together as a family.
I’m sorry for rambling…I’m not some kook looking to waste your time and energy. I trust your advice and have come to respect your opinions. Looking forward to hearing from you again.
Regards
Donna
May 23, 1963
PS I bet my mother is chuckling at me from the Heavens. She thought I was a bit selfish before I married and oce advised me not to have children. She didn’t intend it to be mean…but it has always stcuk with me.
Dear Donna,
Times are hard financially for everyone right now, but you have the right attitude - praying positive prayers and thinking positive thoughts - and that alone will help you stay afloat financially with your family. All of the LOVE you have with your family also is a wonderful and positive vibration that will attract good luck and prosperity into your lives.
The best thing you can do right now is to put all of your worries into the hands of a Higher Power and spend the moments of your life loving your family.
God didn’t bring you this far and bless you this much to have things fall apart for you. Don’t let your ‘ego’ mind be like a drippy faucet - wasting your precious energy - thinking negative thoughts.
Have you seen the DVD “The Secret”? The Universal Law of Attraction is extremely strong and I live by it’s magnificient energy every moment of every day.
Visualize perfectly how you desire things to be and start acting as if what you desire is already here for you. Only your negative thoughts can block your prosperity. Set a good example for your family and for everyone you know and meet, by being the most positive person you can be.
And always remember…God put ‘you’ in charge of taking care of ‘you’…how well have you been doing taking care of yourself?
Things will get better, but in the meantime, try to learn more about the Universal Law of Attraction and continue to have an attitude of gratitude for everything that is already going ‘right’ in your life.
Take time to enjoy your life and smell the flowers!
Angel Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
PS. Your Mother is smiling down on you. When she told you that you should never have children, all she was telling you at the time is “it’s not going to be easy” and “I love you my daughter and I want you to have an easier life than I’ve had.” She never meant that you couldn’t handle it, so don’t take her words as a cut down to your abilities to be a good mom. I know how you feel because my mom told me the same thing and my Great Aunt Yvonne - who was extremely psychic - told me when I was 14, “Michelle, you shouldn’t have children because if you do, you won’t be able to do what you are meant to do here on the Earth plane.” - but, I made my own choices and I have 5 wonderful children! We are strong Donna and we can accomplish what we desire…just take plenty of positive time out for yourself to recharge your inner batteries.
hello dr michelle,
can you tell me when this energy around me is going to change? i feel like life is so overwhelming for me. I am practicing all the wonderful things you suggest, it’s just some days.. (like today) I feel like screaming
thank you so much
Lena
Hi Lena,
You asked me that ‘when’ question again and it’s so hard to answer the ‘when’ questions because we need to learn what we need to learn to get to the next steps in our lives. I know that you are going through some hard times right now - especially right now because Mercury in Gemini is retrograde right now until aprox. 11:00 pm on June 19th. Hang in there Lena…this is an important time of ‘releasement’ for all of us. A very special time to concentrate on the NOW moments of our life and have an attitude of gratitude for even the little things that are going right for us. Enjoy the little things and the more grateful you are for those…the more good things will flow into your life too.
Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Hello Dr. Michelle. I love your site and thank you for your great work.
My romantic life has never been very good. I’m most attracted to bad boy types and end up getting hurt. The good guys are there too and treat me great but I don’t have the same feelings for them and it is unfair to be in a relationship with someone if I’m only half in it. I am 48 and would love to be part of a satisfying, passionate and fulfilling partership. The time between relationships is years because either a new man turns me completely off or I pine away for one that’s not very interested in me. I’m attractive, adventurous, honest, have integrity and am friendly. What do I need to do to turn my love life around and bring happiness into my life? (DOB 4-21-1960). Thanks.
Hi Vicky,
I totally understand you being attracted to the ‘bad boys’ because they have such a sexy attraction about them, but as you well know by now…you’ve grown and come to understand that you deserve so much more in your life now. You’re desire for security, fidelity, safety, and committment is getting stronger day by day AND those good boys you were once not attracted to will become your favorites as time goes by. What I am feeling is that you have emotional baggage hanging around in your heart from a past love - where they wasn’t a complete ending to the situation. A relationship that you knew was not good for you and was based on a lot of emotional ‘heat’ as well as a lot of ego energies (jealousy, suspecion, etc) and you are growing away from those negative energies. It has taken you a long time to release these and become wise about them, but because of them you’ve felt subconsciously that in any relationship you are in you might end up ‘abandoned and taken for granted’…and thus, you’ve attracted exactly that type of relationships into your life. The reason is for you to realize that you’ve grown past this lesson and that by being your own bestfriend and strengthening your self-esteem…you won’t be abandoned ever again. You’ve had a lot of ‘changes, challenges, and tests of faith’ throughout your life and you are now in a cycle of your life where you want success on all levels. You can have what you desire ONLY if you can let go of depression (especially issues from your past). I highly recommend that you get a full indepth personal session with me and you can read more about my services here through my website under “My Services for You.”
Allow the healing to take place and give yourself the gift of a personal spiritual counseling session as soon as possible. I can go much deeper about these issues with you when I talk with you personally.
Blessings,
Dr. Michelle
Hi Michelle, I love your site and I check in regularly
For the past 10 years I am blocked from success.
Only losses,suffering emotionally, mentally & financially.I am under so much stress and frustrated.
We are getting deeper & deeper in debt, but thank God, our kids are ok.
When situation is going to change around me ?
Where you see life taking me?
My birthday is :January 3, 1957
Thank you.
Dear Lumberti,
I sympathize with the situations you’ve been going through, but you need to give yourself credit for everything you ‘have’ accomplished. The old saying, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” is certainly your motto. You really need to give yourself credit for all you have done ‘right’ and try not to dwell over the other little things that seem to bog you down so much. Your destiny number is 26/8 and being an 8 Soul (in this lifetime) indicates that your path and your main lesson is about ‘overcoming depression and having enough positive faith to reach for success!’ It’s not easy, but you are a powerful soul. Learning to ‘release control’ issues is extremely important. Put all of your issues into the hands of a Higher Unconditionally Loving Power and realize that ‘you’ don’t have to do everything yourself. Learning about what the ‘ego’ is - for it is truly the Human dilemma will also help you. Learning about the Universal Law of Attraction will also help you. Currently, since your birthday in 2008, you are now in a 5 cycle which means that this year is about ‘changes, challenges, and tests of faith’ for you. And this alone may have you getting worried, BUT…if it’s about changes - why not focus on the changes you would like to see happen in your life! What you focus on will be exactly what you manifest in your life. For better or worse…check your thoughts often and make sure that you are thinking about what you truly desire to manifest into your life. You seem to have a fantastic ‘attitude of gratitude’ about how your kids are doing…try to have that same attitude about yourself and the other people and circumstances in your life. For more indepth information about yourself and your life direction, I highly recommend that you get a personal indepth session with me. When you are ready to do that, drop me an e-mail! You can learn more about my services on this website on the section “My services for you”.
Good Luck in all you do!
Dr. Michelle
Michelle, did you misunderstand my boyfriend’s birthday? January 7, 1956. Or am I misunderstanding something about Sun Signs? You responded that he is a Cancer sun sign. We are both capricorns. Thanks.
Hi Arlene,
Call me Blonde! I was ‘feeling’ the loving vibrations so strongly with your boyfriend and you, that as I was writing to you before I was feeling he was a Cancer Sun sign - although I knew logically that he is a Capricorn. Geez…what I wrote to you about him being an 11 destiny number still holds true. He is a very loving old soul indeed! Now, let me also tell you that when two people of the same sign are in a relationship together - the oldest of the two really takes on the personality of that sun sign - meaning he is more of the Capricorn and brings you into the energies of the oppos