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		<title>By: Wilson Newsome</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wilson Newsome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 03:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The information here is truly amazing. I look forward to reading more articles like this in the future.  i love the UFC!</description>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 00:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Leota,

The Judge will try to be compassionate towards your daughter being the Mother of Angel. Angel is sure a beautiful soul indeed. There will be 'rules' for your daughter to follow. The Judge will want to 'make sure' that Angel has a safe and very secure household in which to live in. Child protective services (or some other similar agency) will have to check out both residences to see which home is the best place for her. I'm feeling that they will have joint custody - some days at Dad's home and some days with your daughter. The more stable and independent your daughter can be...the better things will turn out for her regarding having custody of your grand daughter.

Many Blessings and Good Luck,
Michelle</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Leota,</p>
<p>The Judge will try to be compassionate towards your daughter being the Mother of Angel. Angel is sure a beautiful soul indeed. There will be &#8216;rules&#8217; for your daughter to follow. The Judge will want to &#8216;make sure&#8217; that Angel has a safe and very secure household in which to live in. Child protective services (or some other similar agency) will have to check out both residences to see which home is the best place for her. I&#8217;m feeling that they will have joint custody - some days at Dad&#8217;s home and some days with your daughter. The more stable and independent your daughter can be&#8230;the better things will turn out for her regarding having custody of your grand daughter.</p>
<p>Many Blessings and Good Luck,<br />
Michelle</p>
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		<title>By: leota</title>
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		<dc:creator>leota</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 08:08:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi 
my daughter( 9/30/82) gose to court on july 26 at 1:30 for cusdy of my granddaughter angel (1/8/2002) her dad that is take her to court is born in  in oct his 28 I dont no the day he was born.

I hope that my grandbaby stay with her mom.My daughter has lost her job that to lady she was live with and has no car.I jsut want to know to when she going to start getting her life back on track.she has had a long hard raod.I keep tell her I'm proud of her and have faith thing will work out.
it would kill her if she lose her she is her life. hope the jud see that.

thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi<br />
my daughter( 9/30/82) gose to court on july 26 at 1:30 for cusdy of my granddaughter angel (1/8/2002) her dad that is take her to court is born in  in oct his 28 I dont no the day he was born.</p>
<p>I hope that my grandbaby stay with her mom.My daughter has lost her job that to lady she was live with and has no car.I jsut want to know to when she going to start getting her life back on track.she has had a long hard raod.I keep tell her I&#8217;m proud of her and have faith thing will work out.<br />
it would kill her if she lose her she is her life. hope the jud see that.</p>
<p>thank you</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 03:03:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Danielle,
Yes things have certainly been tough for Libra people and you have much to learn yet with Saturn going back into your sign on July 21st. Saturn will be in your sign from July 21st through October 5th 2012. It's important for you to understand the tests that Saturn will put you through and what those tests mean to your own life and spiritual growth. Mars will add energy to Saturn when Mars moves into your sign too on July 30th and will grow in intensity through August 18th. What does this all mean for you personally? Well, my best suggestion is that you set up a personal appointment with me so that we can take a good look at your Natal chart together and I'll explain where you are now and the choices ahead for you. This would be a wise decision on your part instead of just letting Fate and Time push you here and push you there...leading you to screaming even more about what's so 'unfair' in your life. Your life is all about 'changes' anyways Dear Danielle. It's through your wise and honest choices that you will begin to attract into your life situations that will become more 'fair' and 'positive' for you.

Good Luck!
Dr. Michelle</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Danielle,<br />
Yes things have certainly been tough for Libra people and you have much to learn yet with Saturn going back into your sign on July 21st. Saturn will be in your sign from July 21st through October 5th 2012. It&#8217;s important for you to understand the tests that Saturn will put you through and what those tests mean to your own life and spiritual growth. Mars will add energy to Saturn when Mars moves into your sign too on July 30th and will grow in intensity through August 18th. What does this all mean for you personally? Well, my best suggestion is that you set up a personal appointment with me so that we can take a good look at your Natal chart together and I&#8217;ll explain where you are now and the choices ahead for you. This would be a wise decision on your part instead of just letting Fate and Time push you here and push you there&#8230;leading you to screaming even more about what&#8217;s so &#8216;unfair&#8217; in your life. Your life is all about &#8216;changes&#8217; anyways Dear Danielle. It&#8217;s through your wise and honest choices that you will begin to attract into your life situations that will become more &#8216;fair&#8217; and &#8216;positive&#8217; for you.</p>
<p>Good Luck!<br />
Dr. Michelle</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 01:16:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Michelle-
Really great site, thank you for it.  Hoping for some insight into my life, I feel like I have been lost for so long.  I tend to bounce from one extreme to the other as of late. Sometimes I have such clarity as to what I am supposed to be doing, but then I find that I continually do the wrong things.  Is life ever going to make sense for me?  
I was born 10-10-74, los angeles, ca, 5:03 pm.  
Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Michelle-<br />
Really great site, thank you for it.  Hoping for some insight into my life, I feel like I have been lost for so long.  I tend to bounce from one extreme to the other as of late. Sometimes I have such clarity as to what I am supposed to be doing, but then I find that I continually do the wrong things.  Is life ever going to make sense for me?<br />
I was born 10-10-74, los angeles, ca, 5:03 pm.<br />
Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Nina,
Your question is very easy actually. You are a Virgo and your friend is a Gemini - both signs are ruled by the planet Mercury - thus you will both have a wonderful intellectual vibration with each other. After being in a relationship for 16 years - you 'know' your current partner (what he thinks, how he thinks, who he is etc.) basically you pretty much have him all figured out. Virgo's like to figure things out. Virgo's are constantly 'thinking' all of the time (and so are Gemini's) - so what you have going with your University Friend is just that...a mental/intellectually stimulating friendship.

I wouldn't throw the baby out with the bathwater - meaning that I wouldn't give up your long lasting 16 year relationship with your 'real' man - just because you've found a male friend who is intellectually stimulating to you. I'm sure that you are quite interesting to him too. And, with the fact that you are both at the University this also gives you something in common with each other.

I would suggest that you remain friends and allow that friendship to grow with deep respect for each other. But, I wouldn't expect more than that at this point in time because you will only frustrate yourself, put pressure on your current relationship, and cause pressure on this interesting male friend that you have. 

I hope I've been able to help you understand this situation more clearly.

Blessings Always,
Dr. Michelle</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nina,<br />
Your question is very easy actually. You are a Virgo and your friend is a Gemini - both signs are ruled by the planet Mercury - thus you will both have a wonderful intellectual vibration with each other. After being in a relationship for 16 years - you &#8216;know&#8217; your current partner (what he thinks, how he thinks, who he is etc.) basically you pretty much have him all figured out. Virgo&#8217;s like to figure things out. Virgo&#8217;s are constantly &#8216;thinking&#8217; all of the time (and so are Gemini&#8217;s) - so what you have going with your University Friend is just that&#8230;a mental/intellectually stimulating friendship.</p>
<p>I wouldn&#8217;t throw the baby out with the bathwater - meaning that I wouldn&#8217;t give up your long lasting 16 year relationship with your &#8216;real&#8217; man - just because you&#8217;ve found a male friend who is intellectually stimulating to you. I&#8217;m sure that you are quite interesting to him too. And, with the fact that you are both at the University this also gives you something in common with each other.</p>
<p>I would suggest that you remain friends and allow that friendship to grow with deep respect for each other. But, I wouldn&#8217;t expect more than that at this point in time because you will only frustrate yourself, put pressure on your current relationship, and cause pressure on this interesting male friend that you have. </p>
<p>I hope I&#8217;ve been able to help you understand this situation more clearly.</p>
<p>Blessings Always,<br />
Dr. Michelle</p>
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		<title>By: Nina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 08:02:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Dr. Michelle

I wonder if you can help me. I've been living in a good, loving relationship with a man for 16 years now but since october last year I have been very very much drawn to, attracted to, this other man I know in my university class. We got closer and closer and I fell in love with him. I don't excactly know the nature of his feelings for me. Nothing has ever "happened", I haven't cheated on my partner. But I do feel that this man and I connect deep somehow, at least mentally, and I can't help but wonder who he is, or what he is "supposed" to mean to my life.(Or me to his). My dates are 09/15/74, his are 06/09/81. I don't think that what I feel is just because I am "bored" in my current relationship. I also feel that if this new man and me can't be lovers we definitly should be good friends anyhow! My question is really: Who IS he/What IS this kind of relationship, what does HE want from me or feel for me or need? I am scared to ask him since I fear he would pull back from me if he doesn't share the depths of my feelings and then we can't stay friends! Shall I settle for just friends or is my attraction/ wishes for something deeper, valid? Of course I don't want to hurt anybody. But I wonder maybe if me and my current partner has grown together and helped each other as much as we can now, and it's time to move on?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Dr. Michelle</p>
<p>I wonder if you can help me. I&#8217;ve been living in a good, loving relationship with a man for 16 years now but since october last year I have been very very much drawn to, attracted to, this other man I know in my university class. We got closer and closer and I fell in love with him. I don&#8217;t excactly know the nature of his feelings for me. Nothing has ever &#8220;happened&#8221;, I haven&#8217;t cheated on my partner. But I do feel that this man and I connect deep somehow, at least mentally, and I can&#8217;t help but wonder who he is, or what he is &#8220;supposed&#8221; to mean to my life.(Or me to his). My dates are 09/15/74, his are 06/09/81. I don&#8217;t think that what I feel is just because I am &#8220;bored&#8221; in my current relationship. I also feel that if this new man and me can&#8217;t be lovers we definitly should be good friends anyhow! My question is really: Who IS he/What IS this kind of relationship, what does HE want from me or feel for me or need? I am scared to ask him since I fear he would pull back from me if he doesn&#8217;t share the depths of my feelings and then we can&#8217;t stay friends! Shall I settle for just friends or is my attraction/ wishes for something deeper, valid? Of course I don&#8217;t want to hurt anybody. But I wonder maybe if me and my current partner has grown together and helped each other as much as we can now, and it&#8217;s time to move on?</p>
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		<title>By: Michele</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 01:18:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much.  I really hear what you are saying and I truly believe it.  I quit smoking a year ago and have put on several pounds you have not only motivated me to "get on with life" so to speak, but to really start feeling good about myself; Take off the weight, enjoy nature, etc.  things I love to do.  I guess its called living.  I am going to have an attitude of gratitude.  

May you have a wonderful evening and know that you are very special and appreciated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much.  I really hear what you are saying and I truly believe it.  I quit smoking a year ago and have put on several pounds you have not only motivated me to &#8220;get on with life&#8221; so to speak, but to really start feeling good about myself; Take off the weight, enjoy nature, etc.  things I love to do.  I guess its called living.  I am going to have an attitude of gratitude.  </p>
<p>May you have a wonderful evening and know that you are very special and appreciated.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 22:55:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Michele,

I totally understand how you are feeling, especially because you want to make sure that your family is always well, fed, and taken care of to the best of your ability. You are more worried about them than you are about yourself - but hang in there - this year of 2010 IS about Pisces people moving ahead in their lives and attracting positive opportunities to themselves. The only thing that may delay your ability to 'attract' that positive energy into your life would be your own doubts, worries, and being overly concerned about everything...because when you are then you will become exhausted and not be able to 'visualize' yourself being able to do more for yourself or your family.

You are a very kind-hearted and loving soul indeed - especially when it comes to your family and those you really care about. Start giving yourself credit for that - and for what you love to do -because you know that once you put your mind towards something that you always do very well.

You are talented in the industry that you want to work in. It's time to get out there and apply for those positions that you really want. Your ideal would be for you to own your own business one day (which you easily can do one day) there's just so much going on around you right now (with your kids, husband, house duties etc) that you can get depressed and your energy gets zapped easily. For now, just do what you need to do - keep the faith (as only a Pisces can do) and look for those opportunities that you would enjoy.

You don't need to be frightened...you need to give yourself more positive credit, take some quiet time out for yourself so that you can recharge your internal batteries, and then get out there and apply, apply, apply!!! Don't worry, your talent will speak for itself. You just need a good company to give you a try - and you'll do the rest easily enough!

Love and Light - Good Luck in your job search!
Michelle</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Michele,</p>
<p>I totally understand how you are feeling, especially because you want to make sure that your family is always well, fed, and taken care of to the best of your ability. You are more worried about them than you are about yourself - but hang in there - this year of 2010 IS about Pisces people moving ahead in their lives and attracting positive opportunities to themselves. The only thing that may delay your ability to &#8216;attract&#8217; that positive energy into your life would be your own doubts, worries, and being overly concerned about everything&#8230;because when you are then you will become exhausted and not be able to &#8216;visualize&#8217; yourself being able to do more for yourself or your family.</p>
<p>You are a very kind-hearted and loving soul indeed - especially when it comes to your family and those you really care about. Start giving yourself credit for that - and for what you love to do -because you know that once you put your mind towards something that you always do very well.</p>
<p>You are talented in the industry that you want to work in. It&#8217;s time to get out there and apply for those positions that you really want. Your ideal would be for you to own your own business one day (which you easily can do one day) there&#8217;s just so much going on around you right now (with your kids, husband, house duties etc) that you can get depressed and your energy gets zapped easily. For now, just do what you need to do - keep the faith (as only a Pisces can do) and look for those opportunities that you would enjoy.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need to be frightened&#8230;you need to give yourself more positive credit, take some quiet time out for yourself so that you can recharge your internal batteries, and then get out there and apply, apply, apply!!! Don&#8217;t worry, your talent will speak for itself. You just need a good company to give you a try - and you&#8217;ll do the rest easily enough!</p>
<p>Love and Light - Good Luck in your job search!<br />
Michelle</p>
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		<title>By: Michele</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 13:46:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was wondering if you could give me a little help...I have been out of work for over a year, my car is on its last leg, I have three children (One of which is going to college next year), my unemployment benefits were just cut off.  I am married and my husband does work, but it is not even close enough to pay our bills.  I am very frightened.  I am really good at what I do, which is Banquet Manager/Event Planner for restaurants.  Will I find a job soon?  My birthday is 2/26/60. Please...Thank you, Michele</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was wondering if you could give me a little help&#8230;I have been out of work for over a year, my car is on its last leg, I have three children (One of which is going to college next year), my unemployment benefits were just cut off.  I am married and my husband does work, but it is not even close enough to pay our bills.  I am very frightened.  I am really good at what I do, which is Banquet Manager/Event Planner for restaurants.  Will I find a job soon?  My birthday is 2/26/60. Please&#8230;Thank you, Michele</p>
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